Monday, 30 June 2014

39. Develop Your Sense of Humor


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39. Develop Your Sense of Humor

In all areas of life, a quick wit, a hearty laugh, a smile and a warm sense of humor are appreciated. To be a good joke teller, tell jokes often. Practice, Model your delivery after comedians you admire and funny friends. Start a joke file.
Always be absolutely sure that your material is clean and non-offensive. Stick to a universally funny subject—you. Most of the best humor is self-deprecating. That is, you have to learn to laugh at yourself.
On your road to success, there will be many stumbles and fumbles, providing many opportunities for you to turn the unexpected into stress-reducing laughter. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Laugh about it. Be affable, humor will add to your attractiveness.



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Sunday, 29 June 2014

38. Appreciate Your Appeal


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38. Appreciate Your Appeal

Following the “Action Principles” makes you an appealing, charismatic person. Students will want to learn from you, bosses to promote you, banks to lend you money and customers to buy your products or services.
Charisma isn’t painted on the outside. It comes from the inside. Be honest. Be yourself. Adopt this attitude and you will be liked by man-immediately.



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Saturday, 28 June 2014

37. Act as You Feel


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37. Act as You Feel

When you feel in the mood to do something, this is the best time to do it.
· If you feel happy, smile.
· If you feel daring, act.
· If you receive good service, compliment.
· If you feel energetic, do something positive.
· If you know a good joke, tell it.
· If you are interested in becoming wealthy, save and invest.
· If someone needs help. Lend them your strong hands or soft voice.
· If you give your word, keep it.
· If you want to make things better, vote.



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36. Maintain Your Presence


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36. Maintain Your Presence

Your contented presence shows an air of simple elegance and refinement in attitude and form. You appear physically, emotionally and spiritually strong, yet you seem to have even greater strength in reserve. You are poised, coordinated and balanced. You command with effortless, assured confidence. Be calm. Be deliberate. Feel assured and alert. Look good. Feel good. Keep your eyes forward. Breathe deeply. Speak with a soft voice in a thoughtful manner. Rarely interrupt. Be brief. Walk with a purpose. Don’t rush. Have a firm handshake. Your eyes are friendly. Your demeanor is respectful. Let your smile begin in your mind. You exhibit both style and class. First impressions are lasting.
The things you want drawn to you will come as a result of your good nature and determined persistence. Pause and savor the moment. Begin your work.



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Sunday, 15 June 2014

35. Forget Everybody


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35. Forget Everybody

Not everybody wants to do business with you. Not everybody wants to be your friend. Not everybody wants world peace. Not everybody wants to work hard. Not everybody wants to be president.
Not everybody is smart enough to be a rocket scientist. Not everybody is fast enough to run in the Olympics. Who is helped by pretending otherwise?
Trying to accommodate everybody is a trap. It can’t be done. Be yourself. People know their own problems better than you do. Not everybody will listen to reason or even act in his or her own best interest. You can.



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Saturday, 14 June 2014

34. Love Many Things


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34. Love Many Things

You proportionally increase your chances for happiness by increasing the number of things that you love doing. Love many things and your happiness will escalate into an enthusiasm for life, which will have a positive effect on you and those around you. Seek and enjoy those things that give your life value and purpose.

To love many things, you must be adventurous. A boring life is your own fault. Try new things. Be excited and passionate about life. Feel good. You must be able to see beauty in the grand scheme of things as well as in details.

Discover: music, art, books, food, T’ai Chi, karate, theater, travel, movies, sunsets, exercise, friends, gardens and the internet. Open your mind. Find your preferences. Make your home, office and dojo beautiful places to love. Keep going…
Remember how lucky you are to have so many interests. Happiness may not be a result of financial success. Happiness is a result of loving many things and appreciating what you already have.



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Friday, 13 June 2014

33. Stay Centered


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33. Stay Centered

In the battles of life, you will take punches. Some may hurt. This too will pass. You are the center of your universe. Take care of your own needs first. Then go to your family, then to friends, neighbors and employees. Move on the larger communities. Don’t use saving the world as an excuse to forget you family. Don’t allow others to rush or pressure you to act before you can decide what is right. The most important thing that a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
Once again, you are very small part of the grand scheme of thing. You are one with the universe. You are everything and nothing. Remain calm, balanced and aware.



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Thursday, 12 June 2014

32. Embody Integrity


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32. Embody Integrity

As a follower of the “Action Principles”, you are proud, strong, friendly, generous and successful. Many will seek your counsel. People will depend on you. Have faith and a belief in your cause. Know what you will fight for and what you won’t. Do not compromise what is right. Stick to your convictions and principles as you allow your ethical values to direct your decision-making. Integrity goes beyond self-interest to moral courage. Lying only leads to more lying.
Keep your promises. Fulfill your commitments. People want to know where you stand and for what you stand. People respect honesty and sincerity, but hate hypocrisy. Be consistent. Speak in clear precise facts. Be sure your words match your deeds. Do what you say and your credibility builds. You cannot speak stronger words than, “I give you my word.”



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Wednesday, 11 June 2014

31. Be the Warrior


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31. Be the Warrior

The “warrior” is tough in loyalty, intensity, determination, bearing, initiative, endurance, courage and strength of will. The “warrior” is soft in calmness, self-confidence and compassion. The “warrior” is frequently called upon to step forward when most gladly step back. “Warrior” exists on the battlefield and in daily life.

1. People may react to you rudely, selfishly and with malice. Be courteous anyway.
2. Those you help may whine and offer no thanks. Help them anyway.
3. Your honest word may be challenged and ridiculed. Speak anyway.
4. Success may involve many mistakes and disappointments. Succeed anyway.
5. Your donations may seem too small to matter. Give anyway.

A “warrior” is a master, ever prepared to improve and to be of service to others.





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Tuesday, 10 June 2014

30. Be Decisive


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30. Be Decisive

You don’t have to wait for permission to do the right thing. Be decisive. Take the initiative. Get the facts. Do it now.

Avoid not doing things because you can’t get them done exactly as you’d originally planned. Be bold and get in the habit of doing something, small efforts done continually can yield significant, positive results. Do it now while it’s on your mind. You don’t have to be perfect to live the “Action Principles. Just be a person of action. You must have more than good intentions to succeed. You must act. Get it done. Start it now!!!



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Monday, 9 June 2014

29. Be Proud


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29. Be Proud

Take pride in who you are and in those values and beliefs for which you stand.
Be proud of your education, work and personal accomplishments.
Be proud of your spouse, children and extended family.
Be proud of your home and neighborhood and your country.
Be proud of your body, personal grooming and your manners.
Be proud of the sports teams and cultural organizations that you support
Be proud of your government officials when they stand selflessly for the public good
Don’t be afraid of who you are, since you act with courage and compassion. Bask in the
feeling of being your best. Teach others, so they, too, may be proud.



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Antigua & Barbuda ប្រទេសអង់ទីហ្គូនិងបាប៊ូដា

Capital City: Saint John's ទីក្រុងសេនធ៍ជ្យនស៍
Total Area:​ 440 Km2 គីឡូម៉ែត្រការេ
Official Language:​ English អង់គ្លេស
Nationality: Antiguan ជនជាតិអង់ទីហ្គវឹន
Currency: East Caribbean dollar (XCD) លុយដុល្លារខារីប៊ីនខាងកើត
Find Out More About Antigua & Barbuda ស្វែងយល់បន្ថែមពីប្រទេសអង់ទីហ្គូនិងបាប៊ូដា



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Sunday, 8 June 2014

28. Thing Win Win


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28. Thing Win -Win

Thinking win-win is a fame of mind that seeks mutual benefit and is based on mutual respect. It is about bargaining fairly, and being open-minded and reasonable to all parties. It is about compromise and a sincere desire to find agreements that occupy the middle ground. Win-win is not taking advantage when it is understood that you are being trusted to act with honor.

It’s about thinking in terms of abundance. There is an ever-expanding ‘pie’, a cornucopia of opportunity, wealth, and resources, not scarcity and adversarial competition.



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Angola ប្រទេសអង់ហ្គូឡា

Capital City: Luanda ទីក្រុងលួនដា
Total Area:​ 1,246,700 Km2 គីឡូម៉ែត្រការេ
Official Language:​ Portuguese ភាសាប៉ទុយហ្គាល់
Nationality: Angolan ជនជាតិអង់ហ្គូលេន
Currency: Kwanza (AOA) លុយខ្វានហ្សា
Find Out More About Angola ស្វែងយល់បន្ថែមពីប្រទេសអង់ហ្គូឡា



News in Angola ព័ត៌មានក្នុងប្រទេសអង់ហ្គូឡា

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Saturday, 7 June 2014

27. Remain Adaptable


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27. Remain Adaptable

In daily life, through a love of many things, it is possible to remain adaptable. If it starts raining on the way to the beach, you’ll enjoy going to the movies. If you are kept waiting for an appointment, don’t get angry. Make a few calls or work on your schedule. Always have a book with you and you will never be alone. The small stuff can’t get you down of you are ready to substitute one good thing for another.



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Andorra ប្រទេសអង់ឌូរ៉ា

Capital City: Andorra la Vella ទីក្រុងអង់ឌូរ៉ា ឡាវឺឡា
Total Area:​ 467.63 Km2 គីឡូម៉ែត្រការេ
Official Language:​ Catalan ភាសាខេធឹលែន
Nationality: Andorran ជនជាតិអាង់ឌូរែន
Currency: Euro លុយអឺរ៉ូ
Find Out More About Andorra ស្វែងយល់បន្ថែមពីប្រទេសអង់ឌូរ៉ា



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Friday, 6 June 2014

26. Don’t Be a Perfectionist


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26. Don’t Be a Perfectionist

Trying to be perfect takes too much time and effort. It creates too much stress and is impossible anyway. Instead, strive to relax at the 90% level. This is the personal mastery level. Following the Action Principles, reach the 90% level in most of your financial and social endeavors will be something that you don’t even have to think about. It will happen through your persistence, determination, hard work and nice personality.
Right now, learn about the income and the lifestyle level of those in the top 10% of your profession. If you aren’t content earning more than 90% of your co-worker, choose another profession.
It is possible to try too hard in business, exercise and relationships. Overwork can produce stress and anxiety, which is the opposite of the inner peace you seek. Your best is good enough. Live to a high standard, not to an impossible obsession.



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A GLIMPSE OF HIS SILHOUETTE



LOVE STORY

And there it was, a glimpse of his silhouette… just as I put my iron down looking at the chirping birds outside who brought him back to me!

Though only for a minute, it felt like a lifetime of happiness, it felt like a void being filled. It feels like yesterday when we went to the boat house and sat by the calm lake for hours staring into the twilight of the sky, watching the world go by!
From all the letters exchanged to all the sleepless nights endured, we couldn’t wait to share our stories with the world. He was a travel journalist and would discover Panama to Peru and would take me on his amazing journeys with his beautiful narration.

Going by the lake and describing his travels to me while I would pen down the words based on the picture painted by his words, he was born blind and was part of a program for the differently abled run by “The Society” a well-established national daily, and I being the associate editor was assigned the task of this quarterly column, of course his travels would be different from the rest of us, which was the purpose of this column, to offer our readers the world in a different view, to experience the world in a different way, the world seemed larger than life it seemed to be the beautiful oasis inhabited by beautiful people.


To make people fall in love with the world, his narrations seemed like love letters, even thought he didn’t see the world, he felt the true beauty of it and fell in love with the world.

“The deep silence of the sea-shore, made me feel a calm sense of belonging, when the waves clashed and echoed the sound of the cold water and the breeze teased its way ahead, even the skies went on to dance and the people finally felt the rains they longed for…..”

It was a once in a life time opportunity for me to chronicle his travels and put it out there for everyone to “see” from their mind, be open to a different take on life, he discovered Egypt as the land built by the mighty, nestled and protected by the Gods of love and war.
We saw Bhutan as the land far far away built by the flora and fauna and the sweet scent of pine.

We saw no colour, experience the language of humanity, savoured the delicacies of love. We discovered the streets of china by crispy tickling fare to the streets of India by the sweet and spicy fare. We felt the culture of politeness and humility of humbleness and civility.

At first we were vary of people not taking to such posts, but slowly we got a lot of people from across the world requesting to cover their land, rediscovering their land, people started hosting him and entertaining him.

This led to him travelling almost 6 months a year and discovering many many lands. He was the new Columbus, one day when he was travelling to one such land (I also did not know what places he went to, the editors made all the arrangements and since I was chronicling his travails, they did not want me to know about his whereabouts to keep the posts as authentic as possible, and I would know about the place only after he narrated his experience and the name would be revealed in the end.) he was reportedly gunned down in a local mafia gang war.

After being on medication for over 24 hours and with no progress his life gave in. There was a lot of anger in his fans when they were told what had transpired, his own world betrayed him, his own mankind betrayed him, the last few hours had been the toughest for him to see that the world was no longer that beautiful, that humanity had defeated him!

His travelogues were discontinued, while it took a while for me to get back to my daily routine and concentrate on my other columns, and from the acceptance of the fact that the person I was slowly falling for won’t be there anymore to make me believe that there is beauty in the world!

I revisited those posts and tried to get in touch with all those who hosted him and wishing to see for myself the beauty I imagined in my mind and for others to read, slowly they all got in touch and agreed on hosting me, they took me to all the places he went to, all people he met and in the end each handed me a letter! A letter he had narrated to the hosts to give it to me, if in case he doesn’t make it back and I get in touch with the host!

I felt scared as much as excited and a deep sense of closure to have found something of him I can have with me for the rest of my life!
I however stacked them in a box, and decided to open them only when I undertake all my journeys. I visited India, China, Peru, Russia, Mexico, Egypt and lastly Cambodia. When I returned I started blogging of all the conversations and stories the hosts and he shared, and took the readers on an intimate journey of the confluence of different cultures. His fans started writing in saying how much they missed him, and yearned to experience the world differently.

I decided to open the letters one by one discovering how much he loved me, he saw the beauty in me the way he saw it in other people, the true inner beauty, he feared confessing this to me, thinking how could I fall for a person who is not perfect, while he saw the beauty in others all he saw in himself were the flaws which I saw as true gifts!

All these undelivered love letters showed me a completely different man, someone I wish I could have discovered while we met at the lake and wrote the columns, maybe he purposely didn’t want to show this side of himself to the world, maybe he feared opening up to me, certain things are best left unsaid, though I am gad to have taken those journeys and receive those letters, he will always be special to me and something that only I can hold on to, something so personal that it makes you feel special, makes you feel like one in a million.

“16, September
Wish you were here, we could experience this journey together, take on the world together, our love would always be eternal in this infinite space that lays between us. If true love is all about wanting to be with each other at all times then I have fallen deeply in love with you, and I wish I could the same for yourself.
I may not be able to provide you with much happiness, I do however assure you that you are my first and will always be the one. I may not be able to love you like others do, but my love for you will always be unconditional and would put your happiness above everything else……………

With love,
from Pananma”

“26, December

Here people are celebrating Christmas and its the holiest time of the year, the candle lit streets sprinkled with the snow is the most beautiful time of the year, even though I can’t see any of it, but the spirit of the people all around me makes it beautiful, the pure love and of course the delicious meals and sweets I get to eat, if you were here we both would to the church, go around town celebrating Christmas and the new year together. Make new year resolutions together…………….

With Love from Prague::

“14, February

They say this is the most romantic day of the year, when you are with your loved ones, when the world slows down, when love overtakes all the hatred and wins wars, there are many lovers who can’t be with their lived ones, but thanks to technology they find a way to be with each other across continents, if only a miracle would happen and make us be with each other.
I would take you by the lake and under the light house would narrate my feelings for you.
I always think of confessing my love to you, whenever I am with you, but my fear of rejection stops me from doing that.
If I was with you on this very day I would definitely have confessed my feelings for you.
As the saying here in Austria goes no one can reject anyone who confesses their love for you on this day, its a tradition which has brought many lovers together over decades and generations………

With love from Vienna”

And just when I broke down, hating myself for not telling him how he made me fall for him each time he spoke! Maybe it was too late but I have the letters to hold onto, the letters where he asked every host to sign off with a dove, the symbol of pure love, and as I finished ironing out those letters and kept the iron down I saw a glimpse of his silhouette!

We had a different love story, a relationship that is hard to explain, but as they say some people come in your life for a reason and when the deed is done there is no need for those people to still hang around your life. It would have been a great love story if it was not for the fatal accident that claimed the life of this world’s last believer, but as they say God always calls his favourite people early, and makes them our guardian angels.

I know every time I have a dilemma or I need someone he is going to be watching over me, he shone like a bright star and he still does when he’s an actual star above the world still looking down and believing in the goodness of this world and showering his love with his brightness.

He was someone you could easily fall in love with also someone you can’t easily get out of your mind especially after him leaving such permanent marks in our hearts… they don’t make such people anymore!!

He had alot to say.

He had alot of nothing to say.

We’ll miss him.

I’ll miss him.

He had alot to say.

He had alot of nothing to say.

We’ll miss him.

I’ll miss him.

We’re gonna miss him

We’re gonna miss him

Standing above the crowd,

He had a voice that was strong and loud.

We’ll miss him.

I continue to travel and discover new places as a travel journalist and chronicle the travelogue with a short documentary on all the places that I visit!

To make people fall in love all over again and make them believe as I also start to believe all over again the magic and the love, some miracles are just around the corner waiting to happen and if we observe closely and look out we are always surrounded by such miracles, with love and magic. its all a matter of when we start seeing and believing and also encouraging people to send in their love letters that they have written to be published in homage to this great man and to keep his legacy alive. As they say things that can not be spoken are always written and that’s where the magic of love letters still works even in this day and age of technology.

The End.

Thursday, 5 June 2014

A LETTER TO HARRY



LOVE STORY:

For the past years, I kept myself busy to forget the pain I felt deep within me. It has been 3 years since I last saw you. Here I am. Still hoping that someday we could be together again. How could our love end when I know that it feels so right? How a wonderful love could grew weak. what did I do?

I should not have left you. It was the biggest mistake I ever did. I love you so much that it hurts to see you grew more and more in love with me. What is wrong with loving too much? It is simple. You forgot yourself and even the things that make you happy.

How could you grow to be a better man when all your life keeps revolving around me.You gave me everything. I am so lucky because I met and love a man who showed me selfless and unconditional love. However, as the days, months and years that we are together I felt the same emptiness again.


I started to ignore your calls, did not reply on your messages. I push you away.That day, I could not deny my emptiness anymore. I grew tired of loving you, understanding you. What could be more difficult than seeing your love lost himself to you over his dreams? Maybe it would flatter you at first but as time goes by, it makes you feel so selfish. It was your decision to prioritize me but I also want your happiness to be achieve. so on that day, i let you talked for hours telling me all about our future together. I smiled bitterly. here you are, saying all those stuff about me, about us.

But I never heard about your dreams, your life. Caused in your heart, Nothing is important just you and me.I choose to leave you not because I do not love you anymore. But because I want you to find your happiness. To fulfill your dreams. There were times I noticed those sad eyes whenever you looked up on the sky, I know deep down inside of you, you still wish for it. So, I made my decision even if it means death to me. I am so sorry but I need to let you go.

Today, I still wish to seeing you again. I am so sorry for causing you so much pain. You may not forgive me for what I did but I am happy that your one of the most famous pilot in the country. You may laugh at me until your lungs run out of air, punish me with cold stare or yell at me when you see. I understand. I am so proud of you. You made me so proud beyond anything in this world.

The man I love for so long finally achieve his happiness, his dreams. But One thing that saddened me is the fact that your heart now belongs to someone else. She is so lucky because I know how deep your love is. You gave everything. You make everyday the happiest day of her life just like me before. Now I know I was too late. Too late to changed everything. Too late to show how much you mean to me. Too late to say I love you, once more. Too late to hope that in the end we could be together. Too late has been to late.. after all.

–Lara

The End.

Wednesday, 4 June 2014

A HEART FOR A HEART



LOVE STORY:

Koushal slapped him on his left cheek. His cheek turned red and it had the print of Koushal’s four finger. He pushed him so harder that he felled down on the couch.

“Bloody hell, are you insane? How could you take this much big decision? What about me, you’re best friend? Do you know what you mean to me, and you’re going to leave me for that girl. What about your aim? What about the dreams that you wanted to fulfill? Did u forget all this or you want to forget purposely? You know her since two weeks. Step back Anjani. Step back!” said Koushal with anger in his voice.


He got up from the couch, came close to him and said, “You, you know me more than myself. Why don’t you understand I love her and can’t live without her? Since a week you can see how restless I am. I can’t see her I pain. I can die a hundred deaths to see her smiling.”

Anjani hugged Koushal, his best for the last time. Koushal tried his best to convince him but love does drive people crazy, he didn’t hear his words and took his guitar, his bike key and left the room.

June 1, 2013 – Saturday (Two weeks ago)
Waqt b tehra hai,
(Time has stopped too)
Kaise kyu ye hua
(how and why it happened)
Kaash tu aise aaye
(May you just come)
Jaise koi dua
(like some prayer)
Sun raha hai na tu
(You are listening right)
Kyu ro rai hu me….
(Why I am crying here)

“Anjani, has your dream girl Shreya Ghosal shifted from her porsh bunglow to our 2BHK building? Look at her voice” said Koushal with a wicked smile.

Anjani winked.”Dude, her voice is super awesome. She sings pretty well yaar. Same like my Shreya.”

Anjani was impatient as he wanted to see the girl who had got such a brilliant voice. He walked towards balcony to have a glance of her.

There she was, sitting on a Red plastic chair with her legs folded in crossed position. She was playing with her fingers, moving up and down adjusting it with the song. She was in red pajama and black top. Her hair was tied up. She looked simple. Her voice had some kind of magic, magic that could win anyone’s heart.

Anjani started to get butterflies in his stomach. His fair cheeks turned red like tomato. He was blushing. His mouth was wide open as if he was saying ‘Wooooooooooooooooooooooow’ in excitement. Her beauty was nothing when compared to her voice. Suddenly, he took out his guitar and played the tune of that song. She stared at him. They both had an eye contact for the first time. They gestured each other with a warm and pleasant smile. Anjani had fallen for her but like every time he was confused whether it was love or infatuation.

Time passed and they both met each other daily in the balcony. Now, they had become balcony friends and they kept singing till midnight.

June 10, 2013 – Monday

Anjani was returning home from his office, He had just reached his building gate when he saw two girls going outside in hurry. She was wearing yellow Patiala with a small diamond bindi on her forehead. She was simple but beautiful than any other girls. Anjani lost his grip on bike while watching that beauty and he felled down.

“Are you okay?” came a sweet voice.

“Yes, Yes I am perfectly fine”, he said while standing up and managing him.

“Yeah I can see that how much fine you are! Can you see this blood”, she panicked and removed band aid from her purse.

“Thank you”, He smiled. “Do you remember me? I am your balcony friend.”

“Oh! Yeah hehehe”, she giggled.

“I am Anjani”

“And I am Khushbu and she is Babita my cousin, nice to meet u”.

“Same here, by the way you have really got a great voice. I am a huge fan of Shreya and now even yours. When I hear you sing, I feel she is singing.”

She gave a cute smile, “Thank you, your compliment means a lot to me.”

“Hey, Anjani I am getting late. Nice talking to you. Take care, cyaa…”

“Yeah sure”

June 10, 2013 (10.30 p.m)

Anjani had prepared coffee for himself and went to balcony. He was desperately waiting for her. His eagerness turned into disappointment because she didn’t turn up that night. He didn’t like her absence. Why didn’t she come today? Is there any problem? Or she didn’t like me? Was I looking that bad? May be she didn’t like my behavior! Blah blah were the questions running in his mind.

June 11, 2013 – Tuesday

“Anjani, why are you sleeping here? Moron get up! We are already late. Anjani, get up”, said Koushal kicking him on his leg.

Anjani woke up rubbing his eyes. He found himself in balcony and that very moment he remembered Khushbu and his smile faded away.

“What happened, why you are upset? “

“She didn’t turn up yesterday”

“Oh! You and your nonsense talks”

“Koushal, m serious…I think she is not well or might b she is in problem”

“Cheer up dude. Might be she was busy yesterday”, said Koushal to calm him down.

“But she should at least come once and inform me na. Whole night I was waiting for her. Chuck it, I really don’t care if she comes or not.”

“As if she is your gf na.. She should inform me”, he said teasing him.

Anjani smiled for a while wishing if his words come true. Koushal, understood he was in love with Khushbu, but he didn’t talk to him on this matter as he wanted Anjani to understand it by himself.

One week passed but Khushbu was missing. Anjani was dying to hear her voice, he was dying to have one look of her. He missed her presence, her smile but unlucky he, he could not tell her. Whenever his colleagues asked him about his girl friend he said his single but Khushbu’s sweet face always came in his mind.

“Enough! Is she angry with me or she don’t like me. Why is she avoiding me? I am going to ask her”, Anjani said walking towards the door.

“Anjani, idiot calm down. What if her parents are at home, what will you do?”

Anjani took a step back and sat down on the couch. His one hand was on his forehead and other was touching his guitar. He looked depressed.

June 16, 2013 – Sunday
It was Sunday, both Anjani and Koushal had holiday. So Koushal planned for a trip to cheer him.

They went downstairs. Anjani saw a girl which made him smile for a while. She was Babita, Khushbu’s cousin. He walked towards her. She was in hurry and her face showed she was tensed.

“Hey, Hold on! I am Anjani. Hope you remember me”.

“Yeah I remember you, I am sorry I am getting late will talk to you later”, she said.

“Please, just tell me once where is Khushbu? I want to talk to her once. Please please please”, he said begging her.

“She …… She is in hospital”.

“What? What happened to her”, he said in shock.

“She is suffering from chronic heart failure, and now doctor has said she is in the middle of the sea. She would either survive or die. She could survive only if she gets a heart donor. On Monday, one week ago she got a panic heart attack at evening. We took her to hospital and she is still there fighting with her own self. She is not doing well. Dad and we all are searching for donors, but we are not getting anyone. Just pray we get one donor”, she said and walked away.

Anjani’s world was lost when he heard this shocking news. He couldn’t believe that whatever he heard was true. Koushal tried to console him.

He went to his room. After some time he took his guitar, his bike key and left the room.
He purchased a bouquet for her and went to a jewelry shop and purchased a ring and then he rided his bike towards hospital.

It was a big building. He walked in, he saw many patients inside. He saw one dead body. He crossed his hand and prayed to god to save Khushbu.

He meets Khushbu’s parents and had a conversation with them and take their permission to meet Khushbu.

“Khushbu OO Khushbu”, he called her while playing his guitar.

She wakes up and gives him an astonish look but then gave a smile.

“What are you doing here? And how do you know I am here? How are you and how is your life going? “, she asked in one breathe.

“So many questions at a time. Hold on madam I am not that intelligent that you are asking me so many questions”, he winked at her.

She laughed.

“Actually, I was dying to hear your voice. I kept waiting for you every night but you didn’t turn up. I thought you are busy somewhere but yesterday when I met Babita, she said me about you.

There was silence all around.

“Don’t worry, I am sure you will be fine”, he said holding her hands.

“How do you know that?”

“I am god u know”, he teased her.

“Hehehehe”, she laughed.

“Hey, if you don’t mind can I request you something?”

“What? Say”

“Can you sing that song of my dream girl that you sang on the first day when I heard your lovely voice?”

She blushed.

Sun Raha hai na tu..
(You are listening,right?)
Kyu ro rai hu me.
(Why I am crying here)

Anjani had tears in his eyes. He carssesd her forehead and asked her to sleep. He kissed her on his forehead and rubbed his palm on her soft hair and left the room.
***

“OPERATION SUCCESSFUL”, said doctor.

She was bought in her room, she woke after few hours. She found the guitar leaning on the table and a red small box along with a letter.

She read the letter:

Hey Beautiful,
See, I said you na you will be fine. Just take care of yourself. I may not be able to meet you again; I won’t be there to hear your voice again. Khushbu you are beautiful not only by looks but by your simplicity. I love you darling. I love you a lot. I wanted to say this before but situation didn’t allow me to do so. But you know what I am happy, very happy. You know why? Because I will stay always with you. I am you heart now. And we will be together forever. I m giving you this guitar, please keep it safely as it was the last present given by my parents. Don’t ever cry just smile. It suits you beautiful.
Will you be mine?

Answer honestly okay. If your answer is yes then do wear the ring that inside the red box and kiss it gently.
And if it’s no, then still no problem.. until you are alive I am always with you. Hehehe just kidding.
And do miss me, okay. Only miss me but don’t cry ever.
Where all the springs blossom

You will find me there.
Where our love resides
You will find me there.

I’ll meet you in such a way, this is my promise.
I’ll be with you always, this is my promise.
With love,
Anjani.

Babita was standing outside, she said her that Anjani had conversation with family members and the heart was donated none other than him. Khushbu cried louder, so loud that all the people on the floor could hear her……

The End.

Tuesday, 3 June 2014

A FAREWELL NOTE



LOVE STORY:

Prologue:

I was right when I gave too much importance to relationships. I always believed in life’s smallest joys because I believe they make up a big ocean of ecstasy. I loved moments of togetherness, fun, small fights, mockery, cute gestures of care and everything that made me feel I am a blessed human being. I always cherished beyond the most priceless treasure – my friends; people with whom I had no blood relation.

I fought for them. Their slightest pain inflicted me. Their smallest success enthralled me. I don’t know if I think too much about such small notions that make life beautiful…but whatever happens I will always love my LYFFF with Family, Friends and Fun and what makes me do so unconditionally is another F-“FAITH” in HIM. It will never shatter until my breath stops…..

To You,

I hope you see this before you leave…..


For all that was said and unsaid, I hope you knew all this…….or rather, I want you to know now…..

I owe you a big “THANK YOU” for all the times you have been there with me.

I knew absolutely nothing about you when you came into my life, the meeting was not planned or expected and I was unsure of it at the beginning. And 90 % times when something is unplanned, it’s bound to give you an excitement filled joy ride with small bumps here and there and at the end you feel the journey was worthwhile.

My first opinion about you was that you were very quiet, calm, less talkative, mingle very less and very reserved. And I was quite the opposite, chirpy all the time, making new friends, having fun, enjoying the new environment. All the while I noticed you, which I guess u knew.

I heard from many that you are a great friend, but I never got to know it at the initial days and I regret it till date. You opened up only to a selected few and I wondered why I was not one among them, for half the class were my friends.

I still remember that despite being in the same class, the first time we talked was online. I took the first step. It began with a small ‘Hi’ and it went on to long chats and messages. Still, at class we pretended we did not know each other much.

Gradually we became best friends and shared everything with each other and our friendship wasn’t any longer a hidden fact .You listened to my silliest worries to my toughest problems. We knew what was going on in each other’s mind; rather we would feel it as we were experiencing the same. You were my mentor, guide and at times, I became your philosopher. It was a mutual feeling and the wavelengths matched perfectly.

I feel your creativity was something which attracted me to you a lot. One fine day you sent a quote that I liked very much. I just casually asked if it was yours and you admitted. Then on, there was an endless flow of quotes to my inbox and my inbox was the only place your quotes were treasured. You never wrote it down anywhere. I felt privileged to have them and I don’t know why I read them only once, but I remembered them very well. You used to ask me out of blue about one of your quotes and I would recollect it easily. I knew you enjoyed it a lot and admired my memory.

Though I didn’t write as much as you did, I remember once sending you a quote of mine and you gave me the comment “If it’s yours, you have outdone one of my finest quotes.” That comment meant the world to me.

Our choice of music, musicians, movies, interest in cricket, authors everything matched. And also we complemented each other very well. I was tense about small things while you were cool all the time. Your temper could go out of control any time and you used to call me to prevent yourself from reacting and to calm down. We used to find each other the best one to share worries and have a laugh together in moments of sorrow and joy. We knew very well what each other liked and what could piss each other off and we used to make use of them each time we had a fight and later patched up.

I don’t remember exactly when my feeling changed to something beyond friendship. I felt you were closest to the special place I had in my heart for that ‘ONE’. I still did not place you there because I was not sure of it, for it was happening to me for the first time. I doubted if the feeling was mutual or not. Day by day I began seeing your quotes about friendship and love being addressed to me, though you never said so. I felt each pain of yours inflicting me beyond a particular level. I could feel the vibe from both sides. The freedom you took with me, the way you talked to me, I was sure you also felt the same.

But we never opened up regarding the same, for fear of loosing our friendship. I knew you would never open up, for the image of me I portrayed before you was a tomboyish one. But I thought you realized, I was mellowing down and I was ready to hear what was in your mind.

I felt no one could understand us better than we did understand each other. I knew we would make a silly, fighting couple, but the best we could find for each other.

I felt true love will always be reciprocated, no matter when. I felt my feeling was pure because I found myself changing. I, who never yielded in a debate, felt myself giving up on arguments. I felt myself excited to see the happiness in your face. I found myself waiting to see the surprise and joy in your face for the birthday surprises I planned for you. I felt a smile cross my face each time I saw a message from you or your name flashing on my mobile screen. I decided then, that I would take the first step, if I had to; after waiting a while, since I did not want my love or rather ‘our’ love to be unrealized.

Then I came to know that you knew about my feeling somehow. You started behaving differently, indicating to me that you never felt the same. I took that time to compose myself and I avoided you for a while. The realization shattered me. I kept thinking how I could be so wrong. It was not a feeling that developed overnight. It took years for me to be sure about that ONE. And I was sure it was mutual. I could not know why you would not admit it. I blamed myself for ruining everything.

But I took my heart and continued being the same to you. You had a lot of problems running in your life at that time and I listened to you, helped you in all possible ways I could. At times you felt I did not understand anything and you ended up fighting with me now and then. I thought I should give you space and time to relax. Maybe you misinterpreted that as me trying to avoid you. But then there were also times we used to end up pulling each others leg and laughing endlessly as before. Though your voice reminded me of my mistake and grief, I wanted to stand by you always as your friend. I felt everything was getting back to normal. After all, we were two individuals who would die for friendship and placed friendship as one of our top priorities.

Friendship was where we started and I cherished it still and wanted it in my life always. I wanted to make you feel nothing has changed between us. I never wanted you to feel our friendship was even slightly affected. So I did not even let you know that I realized anything because I wanted you to be comfortable with me as before.

But then no matter how hard I tried, you were not as strong as me to hide the feelings and stand by me and be the same to me. For the last time we had a big fight, things that hurt me a lot was said and unlike always when the mistake was yours, u never turned up this time to sort it out.

I felt something was out of place. I made repeated attempts to sort everything out and I faced accusations against my friendship which you knew would hurt me the most. I don’t know if you did it deliberately. I couldn’t kick my best friend out of my life. I was handling the situation and myself very well. But you made me feel I was a burden and wanted to get rid with it. When I tried to make you understand I can’t loose one of my best friends you replied that a tree doesn’t need all of its branches to survive. But you did not realize that a lump forms in the place of the lost branch, a lump that reminds you of the beautiful times spent together.

And then, when I made one last attempt to know if our friendship still existed, your reply came ,”Sorry to let you know our friendship has ended completely, Bye.”

The reply left me numb for some time. I did neither miss the feelings I had for you nor did I feel any loss or pain of my love going unrecognised for; by then I was completely over it. All I missed was our precious friendship. I felt I had lost in the battle of friendship against love. I kept asking myself what shortcoming was their in my friendship for you to be ready to end it. I kept blaming myself.

Then I remembered what you always said,’ Let’s be friends with people who do not even acknowledge us and wait for them to realize. Let’s bear no grudge to anyone and accept that their role in our story is over, when they leave us without reason. ‘

I realized you might have had your own reasons.

I realized it was not my mistake.

I realized your part in my story was over and I had to let go of you, for your and my own happiness.

For all the sad times that you palliated by sharing,

For all the happiness and relief and rays of hopes that you helped me to find,

For my umpteen sorrows and grief’s that you listened to patiently and for giving me a reasoning behind everything that happened,

For your small and big notions of kindness, friendship, help, love, care and much more…

To a TRUE FRIEND I am happy that I found,

To a SINCERE FRIEND who share the same vibes about FRIENDSHIP

To another CRAZY human being like me who believes a lot in FAMILY, FRIENDSHIP & FAITH

To another almost Twin Soul found in journey

‘WISHING YOU THE BEST IN EVERYTHING & THE GREATEST OF JOYS AND ALL PEACE AND LOVE IN THE WORLD FOREVER…. J ’

I hope you see this before you leave…..before you leave my heart completely……forever

Epilogue:

There are times when we confuse ourselves on the narrow lines between friendship and love. Expectations and hope build up within us without our knowledge and we conjure a world between two where we believe all what we see is the truth. But then, when things don’t turn out the way you expected it to be, understand that it was not just supposed to happen. Believe in HIM, for His plan for you is always better than your plan for yourself.

The End.

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